This powerful podcast episode explores critical autism and SEND support issues through the perspectives of three mothers fighting for change. Host Anna Kennedy interviews Julia Hopper, who founded the charity ‘Send the Right Message’ after losing her 19-year-old autistic son Christopher to suicide, and Melanie Leahy, who has been campaigning for a statutory public inquiry following the death of her 20-year-old autistic son Matthew at a care facility. The conversation reveals the devastating gaps in mental health services and early intervention for autistic individuals, with both guests highlighting how unmet needs in childhood can lead to tragic outcomes in adulthood. Julia’s charity has grown to support over 730 SEND families in the community, providing advocacy and guidance for parents navigating complex systems. Melanie’s campaign has gathered support from 74+ families calling for systematic change, having successfully secured a parliamentary debate through a petition that reached 105,000 signatures. Both women emphasize the critical connection between inadequate childhood SEND support and later mental health crises, making this essential listening for anyone involved in autism advocacy, policy reform, or supporting families through the complex landscape of special educational needs and mental health services.