Join Captain Paul Ellis as he opens up about his transformative journey through divorce and self-discovery, guided by the timeless wisdom of ‘Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.’ After nearly 30 years of reflection, this Yorkshire sea captain shares how understanding the fundamental differences between men and women – from the concept of retreating to one’s ‘cave’ to heal, to the delicate art of filling each other’s ‘love buckets’ – helped him navigate one of life’s most challenging storms. From his grammar school days missing out on understanding women, to becoming a devoted grandfather of 11, Captain Ellis reveals the raw truth about male emotional processing and the long road to healing. His candid discussion about spending 15 years truly getting over his divorce, losing contact with his children for three years, and eventually rebuilding those precious relationships offers hope and insight for anyone struggling with relationship challenges.